Monday Starter : 79

Split, Croatia, 2018

Well… that didn’t work. It’s been a few months since I promised myself I’d keep writing, and here we are. No excuse.

Actually, scratch that—I do have excuses. Here they are:

  • Reading
  • Gardening and weekend chores
  • Walking
  • Going to the gym
  • Travelling(I’ve been to three countries since I last logged on here!)

But let’s be honest—none of these are real excuses. I could write in between these things. Maybe not while lifting weights or pulling weeds, but definitely on a long-haul flight. Even on walks, I often jot down ideas or quotes in Apple Notes while listening to podcasts. Sometimes I do the same at the gym. I’m more of a podcast person than a music person anyway—unless I’m at home, chilling with a book. So yes… time to stop pretending I’m too busy.

Did I mention we got a cat? Her name is Sophie. She’s 6 years old now I think. We got her just before the COVID lockdowns in Melbourne back in March 2020. Gosh, that feels like a lifetime ago!

I haven’t photographed a wedding in ages, but a good friend recently asked me to shoot hers next year. Of course I’d love to capture her wedding day—it felt like a natural thing to say yes. I couldn’t turn it down—I’ve already photographed both of her sisters’ weddings, so it feels like part of the tradition now.

I feel a bit out of practice. The camera settings and the rhythm of shooting a wedding don’t feel second nature anymore—but I know it’ll come back. The muscle memory just needs a little nudge.

What I do remember clearly is how much energy weddings demand. You’re on your feet all day, constantly anticipating moments, reading the room, and wrangling people into position.

It’s joyful, but also exhausting. 

After 15 years of doing this, I think I still have a good feel for how weddings flow—it’s just been a while. Now I’m also weighing up whether to take on another friend’s wedding around the same time. I haven’t said yes or no yet. There’s a strong internal resistance to making that call… and I’m still figuring out why.

Well, for one, I’ve got a full-time job—and realistically, I don’t have the capacity to take on another. Wedding photography isn’t just about showing up on the day (and this one is actually a 3-day event!). There’s the prep work beforehand, and then the post-work—hours of editing, organising, and delivering.

That said, I’m thinking of exploring some of the newer AI-supported editing tools. Impossible Things has caught my eye, and I’m curious to see how it could help lighten the load. I am not a fan of photo editing. But since I’ve been out of the game for a few years, there’s a learning curve… and that adds its own mental weight. All of that needs to be factored in.

And let’s be real—I’m not getting any younger. Sure, I hit the gym and keep fit, but a full wedding day is physically demanding. I get tired just thinking about it!

Ok, time to make that call. Here goes.


Monday Starter : 78

Here I am, stuck in my usual overthinking loop, scrutinising every word until it feels just right. Writing isn’t my strong suit. But I’m giving it a shot anyway. I have an overthinking habit that not only slows me down but turns simple tasks into complex ones.

I’m usually being good with time management but I can still feel overwhelmed by deadlines and tasks.

No matter how hard I try to prioritise and stay organised, there’s always a lot going on in my head that can leave me feeling stuck. I’m working on it.

My husband gifted me a planner from Creator’s Friend - specifically the Fast Brain Friend Productivity Planner. All 12 notebooks. One for each month. I’ve just started using it and I think it’s a game-changer. I’ll let you know how I go.

Speaking of challenges, I’m bringing back my Monday Starter blog series. It’s wild to think I’m already at number 78! Will I hit 100 by the end of 2025?

Forget wondering—I’ll make it happen.

It’s been forever since the last one—Monday Starter #77 was back in 2021!

Tokyo, 2022

I’m not sure if anyone’s tuning in, but that’s cool. This is my space, my personal journal, and it’s always been that way.

There are three big reasons why I’m pushing myself to keep this photo blog—which I call a “journal”, up and running:

  • I love taking photos and want a place to showcase them.
  • I’ve invested years into this website, probably close to a decade. It’s filled with posts and images, and letting go now would mean abandoning a huge part of my creative journey.
  • I need to maximise this platform by consistently writing and blogging.

What I’m watching: Constellation on Apple TV+. 

Figuring out what’s really going on with these intriguing characters and what they’re all going through offers more questions than answers and can be frustrating to watch. But  you’re right there with them (painfully) discovering and trying to make sense of the mystery themselves.

A quote I’m pondering on: “There is no power for change greater than a community discovering what it cares about.” Margaret Wheatley




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